I am of age 21 and having no goal ,my 1st cousin cleared Acca at this age i feel jealous depressed she is always good in studies and i on boy who has responsibilities is failure i have goal of cracking Sbi but feel poor for that and late too , i really feel jealous she will start earning in lakhs

Hello student ,

First of all you that you should not feel jealous of your cousin because everyone has different level of leaning and experiencing . As you haven't mentioned your current profile about what you are pursuing but still I would like to tell you that don't feel bad for it that you are a boy and your are'nt doing anything and she being a girl doing good job because it should be not the matter of thinking a lot as you are only 21 and this is the age of learning and experiencing a lot , so you should keep on working hard success will also reach you as soon as you will complete whatever you are pursuing for . At last I will say stay focused work hard .You can also achieve better thi gs through your hard work !

Good luck !

Hope you are getting my point .

Hey Ayush,

Don't worry buddy. Just keep trying and trying. Hardwork pays off. Just remember 'Failure is the key to success'. Keep Faith in yourself and don't get jealous. You might be even listening from your parents about this but always keep my words with you, one day they will be proud of you. And also if you feel low just think of some personalities like Colonel Sanders (KFC founder) and Steve Jobs (Apple Founder) who got famous in the old age.

Hope, it'll give you some motivation. Stay happy!

Hello ... Jealousy is never an option to reach success of life. Anything you dream of will come true but only when you put in all efforts and work maximum hardwork towards it . Life is full of ups and downs and when you see someone getting greater heights of success see what made them reach to that position rather than looking at your own failures . Its never too late start working hard with a positive attitude. All the best .