My 12 boards & entrnce xms have gone worst. My parents think dat their money is wasted & I've bcome a burden for dem. Should I suicide?
It doesn't matter if your boards and entrances didn't go well. It's not the end of the world mate. There are tonnes of new opportunities you'll get in future. Keep your head up and don't miss those opportunities.
You cannot expect life to be fruitful to you always right? But when it doesn't give you fruits, you plant more trees. Life is not only about dying dude, it's about exploring, learning and adapting. You fight the odds, you don't run away from it.
Your parents invested money on you and you think it's all wasted but it's not in reality. You realised the value of it because your parents invested on you. They just want your good mate. Don't take their taunt and scolding too seriously. They taunt you so that you grow and thrive for betterment.
Suicide is never an option. You've made it till here, you've made it to reality. Now it's time for you to accept the odds, fight it and grow. All the best dude. I hope you have a great life ahead.
Dear Abanindra, am a Psychologist and am aswering you as a qualified person. But this answer is as your fellow human being and not as a Psychologist. From where you are standing at this point of your life, suicide might seem the only option. But trust me, thats the only option for the fearful. Am guessing you are not one. Because you confessed to the whole world on a documented social platform that you didnt do well in your exams. A teenager should really have had guts to confess that he/she underperformed. If you have had the strength to admit your under performace, you also have the courage to clean it up. And academics is just one parameter on which a person's acheivements are calculated. I have couple of friends who never completed their college but are doing real good out there. Just give yourself another opportunity. Try it again. But this time, with a confidence that you can and you will. Remember that this world is so fast paced that it doesnt have time fortimid and people who easily give up. Few years from now, no one will remember how you did today. The world will only remember how you survived the lowest point of your life. Well, it is your call how you want to be remembered- As someone who gave up or as an achiever who survived. And parents being angry, it is actually normal. You being upset with the fact that they are angry at you only spoils your mood. Because theylove you, it is normal for them to be angry. Remember that they are not angry with you per se. They are angry with your marks. And you always have a chance to improve your marks. So,suicide is not an option if you lose a race. Trying and succeeding is the option and I sincerely hope you take the highway. Good luck!
Hey Aspirant, Firstly make this very clear in your mind that you are there child and no matter how much rude or strict a parent might be the affection towards the child always remains unconditional. They might be angry and dissappointed but that does not mean end of the life. You have several opportunities coming in your way grab them. The thing you told of doing is not the only option left. What you need to do is wait for the result before being dissappointed.
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Suicide is never a good option. There'd be a lot of opportunities waiting for you. Maybe this is not your arena, and you should never let these exams decide what your future is going to be. If not this, there'll surely be something else that you will ace at. Also, it is very important to talk to someone, be it your friend, siblings or anyone else. But you should talk. And once again suicide is never an option.
