i feel so depressed today also i cried i am hopeless at age 20+ my cousins are doing well in their studies utilised lockdown by online classes&i spent days months years sleeping crying no one is mine now am i feel its impossible for average student who lost years not studying anything cant crack sbi

Hello Ayush,

It is really surprising to hear of being demotivated at a quite young age. As much as we discuss about this, the change and passion for success should come from within you. We can just answer your question.

So what if you wasted some years of your life? You cannot bring back a day from those years. Instead you will be adding extra days to those years as long as you feel demotivated or confused or upset. The world lives on thre Principle of "Survival of the Fittest". Only those are brave, strong and determined, can win the race. The world is so fast paced that it doesnt remember people who have not achieved anything.

So its time you pull up your socks rather than dwelling in the past. If you continue to do so, you will only be adding agony to your years. Today it has been some years and few months later it will be more than now. You will just keep counting the no.of years you wasted instead of buckling up and preparing yourself.

Problems do not confine themselves to a single person. Every Individual has his/her share of problems. Only those who fight back can really make it big. I personally think there is no point in crying over spilt milk while there is hot cup of coffee on the table.

As much as we discuss about this, it is you who has to pull up his socks and decide to move on and move ahead. If you think you are depressed, please see a Psychologist. But of it is just a phase, you need to buckle up.

It's not too late you can start now for preparing bank exams with full concentration and devotion.

I hope this answer helps you in little bit motivation.

Good Luck!!