I tried but again age factor haunt me all my friends all ahead of me an at age 21 i have no goals feels low&hopeless i doubt my capability to crack sbi i went for preparation but cried and came back year back from now so think jab tab nhi hua tho aab kya,Please help me omto boast& my family needs me

but i want to crack it i am from lower middle class and not having that type of financial support offcourse its genuine for middle class . I can clearly see the responsibilities which i have my parents my aunt to take care of them my father works from morning 10A.m to 12:00 pm
more than 12 hr despite being operated for mouth cancer few months back my god grace he is absolutely fine but i have to do for my family

ayush Dear, Change doesn't happen overnight but you will eventually become hopeful when you start preparing for SBI clerk. No matter how much you worry about your age and the time you have wasted time won't stop, you won't stop growing old. You need to move on with the flow. If you haven't succeeded today, try tomorrow if you again failed try again until you succeed. First of all you need to accept the fact that you cannot stop the present or change the past. You need to embrace the ups and lows only then you can move forward. If you cling to the past you cannot move on, it will hold you back. Start taking small steps you don't need to complete the preparation in just one day. Prepare yourself to embrace whatever future is in store of you. You need to mentally prepare to move on and start afresh only then you can do something and take the responsibilities of your family. Start preparing now, let's say start answering at least 10 questions from each English, Quantitative aptitude and logical reasoning on day one. Try to solve 5 questions correctly. Make a note of correct answers. Next day solve 15 and start spending more time for preparation day by day. When you start make sure that you do better day by day, it's okay if you cannot improve your performance, try again, you can do better than you think only thing is you need to do until you get it without giving up. Keep track of your performance. Do not let negative thoughts to stop you from trying. We all get negative thoughts you just need to divert yourself and think about positivity, only you can do that, you can talk to someone close to you in your family when you are feeling low but you shouldn't sit and worry about that all day. To keep you active and healthy you need to start physical exercises, be it walking, jogging, running or play any sport or game of your favourite for at least 30 mins in a day and eat healthy. I'm sure you are capable of achieving your goal.

ayush Do not fear to fail. We all fail at some point but what makes a difference is trying again and again. If you compare yourself with someone else you will always feel bad about yourself. You need to stop comparing and focus on what you have to do, focus on yourself. Nobody can change what happened in the past. You need to accept it and move on.