I waste my whole day just sleeping need to change i am stucked in choosing career yet ? Is age 21 late to start scratch preparation for banking as i am a weak student ? Is N.l dalmia college good for marketing Pgdm ? i am really wasting my years not doing anything want to end life

Hello Raghav,

We are again here so in your last question I told you that you should not demotivate yourself and told about the solution for your problem. I will again focus on that part which I have mentioned in your previous question that you have two options either overcome the problem in few days or survive with that problem for years or even whole life, choice is yours.

If you will choose second option than you will ultimately ruin your life and there is no need to end your life because it will be automatically ended.

Do you know about Bill Gates, I think that you don't know him otherwise you should not ask questions like this. No worries I will tell you about him, he was one of the failure of his school life and his friends were toppers of that school and the result is, now those toppers are engineers in Microsoft and the failure is CEO of Microsoft. Bill Gate should also think of suicide like coward things but he did not let himself demotivated and we can see what he is today.

It is never late to start your life again so don't keep your hopes high because if it would not be completed than it will hurt you.

So just make your life cheerful and be in contact with us we will make you the personality you want to be in life, what you have to do is just follow our guidance and I can promise that we will not let you feels demotivated.

If we talk about N.I Dalmia College than it is private college and good for PGDM and other marketing courses. You can go for it.

This is the perfect age to start your preparation for banking exams like SBI PO or SBI Clerk likewise. Generally maximum age limit is 30 years for above banking exams so you have enough time for it.

From next time don't feel demotivated for your life and take me as your closed one and now promise me that you will not think about ending your life and like these foul things.

Today is Friday and I want to hear you on upcoming Monday about your further decision.

All The Best for your life!!

Dear Student,

The positive statement in your question is that you want to change and that is the most important step in changing your life.  Now we will share some tips to reach some decisions in life. It is quite normal not knowing what career to choose and most parents/students opt for professions that give them an advantage.  This is partially successful but in the long run it does not help.

What is it that you are good at? Everyone is good at something and use that as a starting point as a guide to choosing a career. If you very unsure we can suggest you do the Myers Briggs Personality Test to understand what your strengths are.  From this assessment you can choose careers that play to your strength. This can be done any career counseling centers in your area.

We will not recommend any courses at this stage as it is more important to find out your qualities. If you not suited for marketing than it will become a wrong choice and that is what we want to avoid.

Once you get recommendations about your strength and the types of professions that you are suitable, we suggest your read about all of them and then understand, which of those really excites you – then we can make a decision. Then we can recommend the study program.

Meanwhile it is very important to take out all these negative thoughts and see a counselor – usually persons having PG in Psychology and practicing counseling.  Please do this immediately and start making small changes in your life and start with regular timing for your activities and see the counselor immediately and review what we have stated above.

Stay Positive!