my son is in 11th grade.i want him to beat iit and get a rank in top iits.i want him to be next sundar pichai of google, Amazon or any top company.i want him to give me one million dollars every year.but he wants to do his undergraduation in us. i don't want him to do that. what should I do?
HelloMa'am/Sir,
You should please stop forcing your wishes on the child. Let him decide what he wants to do with it. If incase he follows what you tell him and he doesn't turn out to be successsful, then he may end up blaming you and you may even regret forcing him to aim for an IIT.
I am sure he will become successful in his own ways, provided he is happy and has your support and permission to do what makes him happy. Guide him to become successful in what he wants and not what you want and I am sure he will make you proud one day.
Good Luck.
And stay happy