whn i was in 11th i fall in rltnship nd it continue fr 3yrs till my 1stdrop yr for neet aftr 12th.but these 3yrs get wasted.after that i take 2more drops for neet.but that past alwys hunts me evryday.this yr is my 3rd drop but i do not score well.now i wnt to take 4th drop but how to forgt my past

Hiii Anam,

So sorry to hear that. But relationships and breakups are the part of life. They are not the end of life. You need to understand at this point of time what is more important for you. Start prioritising things in life that will help you and your future grow.

I know this is the very hard and bitter truth of life when you fall for a person and as you said you have been with her for a long period of time it becomes very hard to come out of that. But if it would have been a recent incident I would have suggested you to give yourself some time give yourself the priority and move on from that but as you have already passed 3-4 years its high time now. Every year you are losing many opportunities in life that you might be capable of.

Once you will make up your mind and let your heart believe that he is no more with you, you will surely come out of that. Self power is the biggest power a human has. You will have to understand that there are something's in life you have to let go. But what is in your hands and what you cannot afford to let go is your career and your future.

Take a deep breath, if needed for once sit down alone in a corner and let all the thinkings, all the sadness and all the memories come down, cry, and hold yourself and come back with new version of yourself.

Challenge yourself to be the person other person regrets leaving you. Build youself Build your career Build your own scape.

Remember someone else might be grabbing the seat you are capable of getting.