How can i focus better for the NEET 2020? I'm always anxious of the smart n pretty girls around me who can handle both their friends as well as their preparation b social media so well. I feel insecure about myself n onlyuse my time to boost my confidence reading stuff online n schoolwrk these days.

Dear Aspirant,

You should know that insecurities and anxieties are true to everybody and it can lead to a great amount of distress in your life. When you talk about the girls around you and what they are doing, you are focusing too much on something superficial. You need to see the meaning of what they are doing as well. Life is supposed to be meaningful. It is supposed to be something with a purpose. Do not judge them but yes know that you should practice what you believe in. So if you find NEET meaningful and something you want to pursue, then go ahead with it and do not think of anything else.

Find the trigger to this. What exactly is making you feel insecure and what exactly is triggering you to this state. Is this a memory or something which happened to you. Why do you think you are not smart and beautiful like the other girls? Is it because of the clothes or makeup or how they conduct themselves? Find the root cause and try to resolve it.

Accept yourself. You can always be the best version of yourself no matter what. Embrace it. You have to love yourself and approve your actions if you wish to have a better state of mind. Keep your aims clear. Do you want to clear NEET? Yes! But you also want to have fun and get pictures clicked. Go ahead! But manage your time well...Trust yourself and the moment and you will be able to conquer what you wish to.

Hope this helps. All the best!